User talk:Theplanetsaturn
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[edit] Arcayne
Thanks much. Your effort to appease me on what must seem to be a petty issue means quite a bit. It is appreciated, and I look forward to returning the spirit of cooperation in the future.Theplanetsaturn (talk) 00:00, 7 June 2008 (UTC)
- Well, to you, it wasn't petty, so I am glad that my archiving early to remove it from the trafficked area was able to make you feel better about the situation. :) - Arcayne (cast a spell) 04:12, 7 June 2008 (UTC)
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[edit] Potential harrassment
I think, considering the history, you thought better of your posting. In which case, kudos to you. Personally, I don't think anyone comes out of this particular episode smelling of roses (do they ever), but I do think you should avoid Arcayne; or make your peace with said individual.
Do you, perhaps know the book I'm OK, you're OK? Basically, the hypothesis is that many people consider that for them to be 'up', they need to drive someone else 'down'. The short circuiting of that approach is to suggest that everybody can be 'OK', without any cost to anyone - beyond an acceptance of their own faults and being prepared to move forward with others (accepting their faults too). Personally, I think everyone should be 'ok' - and that does mean Arcayne with you too.
The way forward is to put the past behind us, and for everyone to try to find some common ground that moves issues forward without involving personalities. I do hope that helps Kbthompson (talk) 01:54, 7 June 2008 (UTC)
