Talk:Host (psychology)

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I have a question about this.

I was dating a man that admited to being Atypical Depressant. However I think he had other issues. For instance, when I would tell him something about my past that happened the was painful. He would take that past on as if it happened to him. 

example: I had a bad divorce, where I found my ex having an online affair and well alot more to it. But after he about killed us in a car accident then abandoning my son and I to homelessness. To try to get the divorce his way..since he was the breadwinner at the end, he did nasty things and lied to try to get to me to give up my rights and take on all debts and such, then he would remove the order of protection. Even trying to set me up by calling the shelter I was in, to have me take my son to him for a visit. Trying to be civil on my end I took him to visit for a lunch hour. However, my ex called the police and had a waraant issued, where I was jailed and so on. However this was removed from my record since I had proof from the shelter admin that he was the one that called and well to make the long story short. I proved he lied and set it up. Anyhow, As I wsa talking to the man I was dating online, weird things would happen. We would have a simple disagreement and then he would threaten an order against me. Never once was a threat made except by him. this happened several times over again. However he would call the next day and make up. So I took at as him being insecurer and his depression issue. I had told him about a man I tried to help while I was homeless as his payee for Social Security income. That man took on that I was his fiancee, my son was his ,, a bunch of stuff. He was out there. He was definately delusional. ONce I found out about what he was doign and harassing my son and I then I moved to a safe place. I had to get an order to protect my son. He also broke into my email and sent love and nasty emails and ecards. All of a sudden the guy I was dating after the final break up and threat of an order started to do the same thing. Well not the delusion of being my fiancee and such but the ecards and emails. However he is trying to make it look like I am the one doing it. After we broke up, he gave me no reason, and when I asked him he refused to email or talk to me. He also claimed he was abused by his room mate/ex girlfriend and prior relationships. I tried to be patient and show him I wasn't like that at all but he seemed to try to turn everything around as if I was doing stuff to him I am not. The weird stuff was me telling him about the ex husband and the mentally ill man issues and he does exactly what they did. What is that sickness? Why do they do that? Can anyone explain this to me? I have read up on the Atypical depression and , yes part is him but the rest isn't. I just want to make sense of this. Currently I am forced to get an order against him now since I recieve threatening emails from him. ANd what I think he is going to claim, is that his emails were broken into. Ironicly enough, when he and I started to talk via messenger, which I still ahve the history, I had my email broken into also. So I think he is goiing to do or say the same, basicly follow suit to what I have told him and have done using my second yahoo ID when I was locked out of my other email. Oh, Also what was weird right before he broke up with me was, he stated to me he was afraid if loosing his son. His son has aspergers and is 21. That made no sense to me either. My son and I both volunteered wiht disabled and such so his son had a home to come to if he and I worked things out. So that wasn't an issue either. Honestly I thought and think he was having an affair and decided he got scared in the end but other things popped up also that were odd. If anyone has any insight, please help me understand Thank you Angelbabz